Your life will always be, to a large extent, what you make it.

 

“Your life will always be, to a large extent, what you make it.”

Your life is yours. You own it, and what you make of it is purely up to you. Others may support you in your aspirations, but, in the end, it’s your creation. You are your one and only boss, and with that awareness comes a special responsibility.

Once you accept this responsibility and stop waiting around for others to make you happy, you will become unstoppable. There will be no denying you. Your life will change, all because of you.

So, turn on the green light and go!

©Jane Powell 

 

Treat yourself the way you want others to treat you 

Accept yourself! Insecurity is what’s ugly, not you. Be you, just the way you are, in the beautiful way only you know how. The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others. You must love who you are or no one else will either. And when you are truly comfortable in your own skin, not everyone will like you, but you won’t care about it one bit.

 

Power in every choice

Whatever fills your awareness most intensely is what you will bring to life. Instead of filling your awareness with excuses, fill it with passion.

With your moments, your skills, your words and your actions you will change your world today. Choose to let that change be driven by what you love rather than by what you fear.

Focus on the good things, on the possibilities, and on those dreams and values that are your most authentic. Make yourself the living embodiment of the best you can imagine.

Your life is constantly shaped by the way you live it, the way you think of it and the way you feel it. Even the smallest things have an influence, and all those things combine together to build the life you experience.

Every day is an opportunity to more fully express the unique beauty of who you are. Every situation is one in which you can choose to give rich substance and meaning to your world.

Feel the power that exists in every choice, and in every moment. Use that power wisely and purposefully, and live life at its best.

Ralph Marston

 

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Tips menanti JODOH

 

1. Jangan fokus pada siapa yang harus dipilih. Tapi fokus melakukan perubahan diri yang lebih baik agar pantas mendapatkan jodoh yang baik.

2. Jangan menginginkan seseorang menjadi seperti yang kita harapkan. Tapi bagaimana kita bisa menjadikan diri seperti orang yang kita harapkan. 

3. Berusaha memposisikan diri untuk siap lahir batin serta berani menghadapi pernikahan kapanpun jika sewaktu-waktu jodoh telah hadir.

4. Berusaha untuk tidak patah semangat dan trauma terhadap masa lalu yang kurang menyenangkan. Bukalah lembaran baru yang lebih baik mulai hari ini dan untuk hari-hari selanjutnya. (PR banget -_-) 

5. Menjalin hubungan persahabatan dan persaudaraan sebanyak-banyaknya. Akan lebih baik jika banyak bergaul dengan sahabat yang baik. Siapa tahu jodoh kita berada di antara mereka. (Siapa tau ada teman yg punya kakak/Om / saudara masih single #eeaa) 

6. Jangan terburu-buru menilai atau memberi kesimpulan kepada seseorang itu tidak layak bersama kita. Karena sejatinya jodoh itu akan hadir atas ridha Allah. Sedangkan kewajiban kita hanya berikhtiar. (Jauhkan prasangka suudzon.. Tanamkan husnudzon ^^)

7. Jangan terlalu mengkhawatirkan usia. Di usia berapapun menikah tetap baik jika kita mampu mempertanggung jawabkan pernikahan tersebut di hadapan Allah. Bagi pasangan, keluarga besar serta masyarakat.

8. Teruslah beriikhtiar dan berdoa. Karena doa bisa mengubah yang tidak mungkin menjadi mungkin sesuai kehendak-Nya. (Ga ada yg ga mungkin. Dari dunia Maya bisa jadi nyata. Jadi terus perbaiki diri dihadapanNya) :) *sabar aja ya mblooo... Hehehe. ...

source : likeislam

There are many ways to know yourself

 

“There are many ways to know yourself.”

You are a multifaceted person. Discovering yourself can be the adventure of a lifetime. Learning how comfortable or uncomfortable you are in certain situations, if you’re outgoing or quiet, what makes you happy or sad, and knowing what you’re good at and what you’re not, is part of nurturing a balanced life. Do you know all those things about yourself? Or, are you too busy, too stressed, or too focused on someone else to care?

Knowing as much as you can about yourself makes decision-making easier. When you know “you,” it’s easier to ensure that your choices are the right ones. This knowledge is your key to harmony and balance. So, take the time to know yourself. It’s the only way to make certain that you live a happy, fulfilling life.

©Jane Powell

 

“Reality is something to rise above.”

Great things are accomplished when you believe that what’s inside of you is superior to your circumstances. Believing you’re more important than any of your problems, that you’re bigger than anything that can happen to you, takes courage.

You may have to dig deep for this courage, but it is there. Rise above fear and doubt. Remind yourself that you are in control, that the time to live is now.

 

Keep building

Small efforts that are repeated are far more powerful than big efforts that are made just once and then abandoned. Instead of hoping for a chance to make a big impact, take advantage of each opportunity you have to make a small impact.

Time works in your favor when you work in your favor with every little bit of time you get. You can achieve great things with modest efforts by persistently repeating those efforts.

Every moment is an opportunity to add a little bit to life’s richness. Those little bits add up.

Each revolution of your car’s engine moves the vehicle forward only a short distance. Yet with enough successive turns of the engine and tires, you can traverse an entire continent.

Just because the effort is small, doesn’t mean it is insignificant. Just because you can’t do it all at once, doesn’t mean it is out of your reach.

Success and fulfillment are built on a day-by-day basis. Keep going, keep building, and enjoy the ride.

 Ralph Marston

 

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