Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Face Conflict with Confidence

 

Face Conflict with Confidence

by Jane Powell
“Are you avoiding conflict?”

Do you avoid speaking your mind because you don’t want to rock the boat?
Do you feel it’s just easier to avoid conflict?
When you don’t take initiative and express your own wants and needs, others make decisions for you – and chances are, they won’t always make the decisions you want! If this goes on long enough, you will start to feel misunderstood or taken for granted. Anger and resentment will grow and you’ll eventually erupt.
You are the only one who can decide to change this behavior!
Next time you’re asked what you want, don’t rush to say you don’t care. Stop and ask yourself, “What do I want?” Then, share it with conviction.


 

New decisions and changes are frightening but
They can also be exhilarating!

No matter what pressures you are under, what
Tough decisions you face, keep in mind that it
Is possible to turn chaos and turmoil into an
Exciting beginning.

Look at all the options life has to offer.  Ask
Yourself how those options fit in with your
Deepest desires.  Whether your desires are
Intellectual, artistic, spiritual, or physical, you
Can make a decision, now, to make them into
Realities.

Do this and you will soar over boundaries, and
Recognize that your endless possibilities have
No limits.
 

 

Enrich your whole world
If you don’t feel like taking action, that’s just because you haven’t started. Get started, get going, get involved in making a difference, and you will absolutely feel like it very quickly.

Right now is the time for action. Right now is when you can do something that will have a positive impact on your world, on your life, and on your lifestyle.
If you wish to get ahead, it takes more than just wishing. Clearly define where you want to go, and you can start working on it right now.
Do you want to be lucky? Those who experience the best luck are those who make their own luck by making the most of what they have.
What you have, right now, is this moment and this opportunity to do something useful and meaningful with it. Go ahead, seize that opportunity and make something truly amazing with it.
Surprise and impress yourself with what you can accomplish when you focus your energy on it. This is your moment to enrich your whole world, so get busy, get going and make it great.

 

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